When Did Being Bisexual Become Cool?

“can time change be the only thing to blame”

Over the last few years I have noticed that people are started to be more and more ok with their friends being Bisexual, and long with the fact that more and more women are starting to come out about their personal Bisexualities. But the question that I have is what has changed people minds from it being something as horrible to a point where you can end a friendship to a point to people are saying “Hey do what you do”.

I think it has something to do with the time that we are in. After a while certain things get old and it because it gets to a point of who cares. For example a few years ago if people found out that you was a girl and you sucked dick you was a hoe and no one would even think about drinking after you however now girls are on the phone with their friends giving them tips on what to and what not to do. When it comes to guys it’ used to be just plain nasty to eat girls out now people are saying its 2009 if you don’t do that you need to step your game up. But can time change be the only thing to blame? Continue reading

Men’s Birth Control Is Here [and i dont mean condoms]

You know I’m happy that my home town Seattle is getting its name out there, but because of men’s Birth Control really Seattle we can do a lot better than a damn Birth Control for men SMH. I mean I understand that people are bored but can we please spend our time on a damn cure for Herpes or something sheesh. Along with the simple fact that Birth Control is really based for women so in reality I HIGHLY HIGHLY HIGHLY dout that you will really see men lined up at Plan ParentHood for some damn Birth Control. Men have a hard enough time keeping up with condoms let’s not have to put Birth Control on them too. I mean really ladies can you really see yourself going up so a guy that your seeing and saying “are you on the pill too???” I hope not SMH, here is what MSNBC has to say about the men’s contraceptive:

For the first time, a safe, effective and reversible hormonal male contraceptive appears to be within reach. Several formulations are expected to become commercially available within the near future. Men may soon have the options of a daily pill to be taken orally, a patch or gel to be applied to the skin, an injection given every three months or an implant placed under the skin every 12 months, according to Seattle researchers.

 

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The NEW Female Condom Is Here In The States

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So now they got this new female condom out that’s supposed to be more user friendly and cheaper. Um ya I’m ok with me taking my birth control and the man having his condoms on handy [gold wrappers please I don’t have time for guys with small dicks] BUT it’s always good to know about the back up and I know that some people do need female condoms ssooo we are just going to post some of the fact about this waste of latex anyways:

The Female Health Company (FHC) announced that its second-generation FC2 Female Condom® is now available for purchase in the United States. The condom received regulatory approval from the Food and Drug Administration in March as an HIV prevention method.

The new condoms will be 30% cheaper than its predecessor and are supposed to be more user friendly. FHC hopes this help in the fight against the global HIV epidemic and other sexually transmitted diseases.

The new female condom is synthetic rubber rather than polyurethane, allowing for a less costly manufacturing process and quieter sound that is less likely to disrupt the intimate act. Also there are hopes the new price will make it more attractive to health organizations for distribution.

While the female condom is not popular in the United States it is used widely in other countries, especially those countries that are hard hit by the HIV epidemic. It is seen as a tool to empower women and protect them even when their male partners will not.

“America’s HIV epidemic isn’t going away. In fact, it’s getting worse, and African American and Latino women are disproportionately impacted… It’s time to provide women in heavily impacted communities with expanded access to affordable women-controlled options, and the female condom becomes that choice. Women will use it if they have it,”said Dazon Dixon Diallo, Founder and President of SisterLove, a grassroots service organization that supports HIV/AIDS prevention and women’s reproductive health programs in the Atlanta, Georgia.

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Is Giving Oral Really Normal

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When it come to oral sex there is the biggest, childish, not keeping it real debate going on for no damn reason. Why, because people like to do it but are too damn embarrassed to admit it because it’s thought of as nasty, gross, whorish, and just a epic HOT MESS. But why??

Let be real girls don’t like to do it because one they don’t wana be on their knees for a guy, or as one of my friends likes it put it its like saying “let me suck the pee-pee out”, ya I had to laugh my butt off when she said that one.

As for guys they don’t wana do it for different reasons I had one guy tell me “its external” aka its hella wet, another one told me “I don’t eat anything that can get up and walk away” ya that one had me rolling on the floor laughing. However the thing that kills me about guys is that they always want a girl to go down on them and not return the favor SMH at them for wanting something for free, selfish assholes.

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He can’t take me being celibate

It seems to me a lot of girls that I know are just now trying to find themselves when it comes to sex. Some feel that they are “grown” and can have sex with as many males as they want and not think anything of it, but then you have those other friends who are a little bit more conservative {like yours truly} and have chosen the path of celibacy. The sad thing is that males seen like they can’t handle it, what’s up with that? I don’t get it, would you rather have the girl that has the common since to save herself for the right one, or the girl that gives it to everyone? Do you want to girl that makes you work for the goods, or the one that’s easier then slipping on a banana peel? The girl that’s tight sweet and still pink, or the girl that’s lose and ran through? I mean clearly I’m missing something about why a girl should give it up hella easy? Please enlighten me. “SMH”

Pussy or Personality??? by Nay Besa

 

It seems to me that you wana get to know the wrong “P”

The pussy and not the personality

Skip straight to the inner thoughts of my g-spot, and never get to know the my inner thoughts that make me go tick tock

My body is my temple so you know my shit stays tight, you gotta use a vice-gripe just to get it in right

You thought I would be your little sex kitten but this little panther proved you wrong, you cant just get up in it like you make a bell go ding dong

You gotta get to know me like a bomb about to take us out like zoom, cut the red or the blue ima leave it up to you; the pussy or the personality which one is your real food cause if you make the wrong choice ima send you straight to the bathroom

You see my body is my temple so I gotta let this dwendel

Get to know a real bitch cause I play no games like these simple tricks

You gotta come hard with your whole heart and soul, cause your girls not making time for no little hump and roll

Pussy or personality is the game we are going to play

Cause I don’t have time for a nigga that’s not here to stay

He can’t take me being celibate

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It seems to me a lot of girls that I know are just now trying to find themselves when it comes to sex. Some feel that they are “grown” and can have sex with as many males as they want and not think anything of it, but then you have those other friends who are a little bit more conservative {like yours truly} and have chosen the path of celibacy. The sad thing is that males seen like they can’t handle it, what’s up with that? I don’t get it, would you rather have the girl that has the common since to save herself for the right one, or the girl that gives it to everyone? Do you want to girl that makes you work for the goods, or the one that’s easier then slipping on a banana peel? The girl that’s tight sweet and still pink, or the girl that’s lose and ran through? I mean clearly I’m missing something about why a girl should give it up hella easy? Please enlighten me. “SMH”